And enough for me that when my hand touched your shoulder, you leaned on me; and when you felt me slip away, you called my name.
I know, you've been here a year, you think these people are normal. Well, they're not. WE'RE not. I look in the library, I call up books on my desk. Old ones, because they won't let us have anything new, but I've got a pretty good idea what children are, and we're not children. Children can lose sometimes, and nobody cares. Children aren't in armies, they aren't COMMANDERS, they don't rule over forty other kids, it's more than anybody can take and not get crazy.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects on the complexity of human behavior and the burdens of leadership, suggesting that those in power are often burdened with understanding the weight of their responsibilities.
In this quote, Orson Scott Card emphasizes the difference between children who are seen as innocent and carefree, and those who are thrust into positions of authority, where they must deal with the harsh realities of leadership and its associated responsibilities. The speaker expresses a sense of disillusionment with the idea that the people around him are normal, highlighting the pressures and potential madness that come with leadership, especially when one feels burdened by the expectations placed upon them.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a team meeting, to discuss the challenges faced in leadership roles.
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