Death ends a life, not a relationship.
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Death ends a life, not a relationship.
The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not "get over" the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.
It's so curious: one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses.
There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
Mourning is one of the most profound human experiences that it is possible to have... The deep capacity to weep for the loss of a loved one and to continue to treasure the memory of that loss is one of our noblest human traits.
Guilt is perhaps the most painful companion of death.
There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power.
Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal.
Unable are the loved to die, for love is immortality.
There is a time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance.
If you suppress grief too much, it can well redouble.
Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there; I did not die.
When the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.
I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patience, love, openness and the willingness to remain vulnerable.
While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates. You must wait till it be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it.
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