How many on their deathbeds wished they'd spent more time at the office - or watching TV? The answer is, No one.
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The ability to subordinate an impulse to a value is the essence of the proactive person.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Proactive individuals can control their impulses by aligning them with their values.
This quote emphasizes that a truly proactive person has the capacity to manage their immediate impulses and desires by anchoring their actions in their core values. It suggests that self-control and conscious decision-making are crucial for personal effectiveness and growth, allowing individuals to respond to situations thoughtfully rather than reactively.
Themes
ProactiveImpulseValuesSelf-ControlDecision-Making
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a leadership seminar to illustrate the importance of self-regulation.
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