Jump off. You are a protected individual. Do not fear.
Henry MillerRead
To love! To surrender absolutely, to prostrate oneself before the divine image, to die a thousand imaginary deaths, to annihilate every trace of self, to find the whole universe embodied and enshrined in the living image of another! Adolescent, we say. Rot! This is the germ of the future life, the seed which we hide away, which we bury deep within us, which we smother and stifle and do our utmost to destroy as we advance from one experience to another and flutter and flounder and lose our way.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the profound and transformative nature of love, suggesting it requires complete devotion and selflessness.
In this quote, Henry Miller explores the intense and sometimes overwhelming nature of love, portraying it as a surrendering of oneself to another person, akin to a spiritual experience. He contrasts the purity and vitality of youthful love with the way adulthood often suppresses these feelings, warning that in trying to avoid vulnerability and idyllic ideals, we may stifle this essential part of our humanity that fuels future growth and passion.
In practice
During a wedding speech to symbolize unconditional love.
Jump off. You are a protected individual. Do not fear.
I saw through to the last sign and symbol, but I could not read her face. I could see only the eyes shining through, huge, fleshy-like luminous beasts, as though I were swimming behind them in the electric effluvia of her incandescent vision.
The essential thing is to WANT to sing. This then is a song. I am singing.
Great God! What have I turned into? What right have you people to clutter up my life, steal my time, probe my soul, suckle my thoughts, have me for your companion, confidant, and information bureau? What do you take me for? Am I an entertainer on salary, required every evening to play an intellectual farce under your stupid noses? Am I a slave, bought and paid for, to crawl on my belly in front of you idlers and lay at your feet all that I do and all that I know?
We are swimming on the face of time and all else has drowned, is drowning, or will drown.
To sing you must first open your mouth. You must have a pair of lungs, and a little knowledge of music. It is not necessary to have an accordion, or a guitar. The essential thing is to want to sing. This then is a song. I am singing.
Love is only a small thing, enough for one person, and any suggestion that the heart might be larger than this is considered perverse.
I just miss you, in a quite simple desperate human way. Oh my dear, I can’t be clever and stand-offish with you: I love you too much for that. Too truly.You have no idea how stand-offish I can be with people I don’t love. I have brought it to a fine art. But you have broken down my defences. And I don’t really resent it.
Each time you love, love as deeply as if it were forever.
I do not love thee, Sabidius, nor can I say why; I can only say this, "I do not love thee."
Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it.
I've never known before what it feels like to want someone - not to want to hook up with them or whatever, but to want them, to want them. And now I do. So maybe I do believe in epiphanies.
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