Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am.
The academic bias against subjectivity not only forces our students to write poorly ("It is believed...," instead of, "I believe..."), it deforms their thinking about themselves and their world. In a single stroke, we delude our students into believing that bad prose turns opinions into facts and we alienate them from their own inner lives.
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What this quote means
This quote highlights the detrimental effects of discouraging personal expression in academic writing.
Parker J. Palmer emphasizes that the academic emphasis on objectivity at the expense of subjectivity leads to poor writing among students, as they are discouraged from expressing their own beliefs. This bias not only affects their language skills but also impacts their self-perception and understanding of the world, creating a disconnect from their inner lives and turning subjective opinions into hollow facts instead of genuine expressions of thought and feeling.
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This quote could be used in a speech about the importance of encouraging creative writing in schools.
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