Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun.
Randy PauschRead
All my adult life I've felt drawn to ask long-married couples how they were able to stay together. All of them said the same thing: "We worked hard at it.
Interpretation
Long-lasting relationships require effort and commitment from both partners.
In this quote, Randy Pausch reflects on his lifelong curiosity about the secrets to successful long-term marriages. He discovers that couples who have maintained their relationships for many years attribute their success to the hard work they put into sustaining their bond, highlighting that love is not just a feeling but also a choice and commitment that requires continuous effort.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of relationships during a wedding ceremony.
Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun.
I'm attempting to put myself in a bottle that will one day wash up on the beach for my children.
It's hard to raise awareness of pancreatic cancer - people who get it don't live long enough.
Brick walls are there for a reason. They give us a chance to show how badly we want
Cancer didn't change me at all. I know lots of people talk about the life revelation. I didn't have that.
I think that we all stand on the dartboard of life. Roughly 30,000 people a year are going to catch a dart labeled pancreatic cancer, and that's unfortunate. It's not what I would have chosen. But I in no way feel like I deserved it.
Sometimes human beings are very much like bees. Bees are fiercely protective of their hive, provided you are outside it. Once youβre in, the workers sort of assume that it must have been cleared by management and take no notice; various freeloading insects have evolved a mellifluous existence because of this very fact. Humans act the same way.
No woman should ever have to choose between maintaining a healthy pregnancy and a paycheck.
When woman work outside the home and share breadwinning duties, couples are more likely to stay together. In fact, the risk of divorce reduces by about half when a wife earns half the income and a husband does half the housework.
We need to say that women have sex, have abortions, are at peace with the decision, and move on with their lives. We need to say that is their right, and, moreover, it's good for everyone that they have this right: The whole society benefits when motherhood is voluntary.
To cure jealousy is to see it for what it is, a dissatisfaction with self.
A desire for social connection is fundamentally hardwired into our psychology, and so being deprived of it has devastating mental and physical consequences. Yet we live in a society which has become ever more fragmented and atomised.
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