To the generous mind the heaviest debt is that of gratitude, when it is not in our power to repay it.
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Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Be observant and discerning before committing to marriage, but be more forgiving and understanding once in it.
This quote by Benjamin Franklin suggests that individuals should take their time to thoroughly evaluate their partner and the relationship before deciding to marry. Once married, the dynamics shift to a deeper level of commitment, where one should be more tolerant and accepting of their partner's imperfections, as relationships often require compromise and understanding for longevity.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsUnderstandingCommitmentLove
In practice
Example use cases
During a wedding toast, express the importance of choosing a partner wisely.
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I think that a young state, like a young virgin, should modestly stay at home, and wait the application of suitors for an alliance with her; and not run about offering her amity to all the world; and hazarding their refusal. Our virgin is a jolly one; and tho at present not very rich, will in time be a great fortune, and where she has a favorable predisposition, it seems to me well worth cultivating.
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