Loneliness is black coffee and late-night television; solitude is herb tea and soft music. Solitude, quality solitude, is an assertion of self-worth, because only in the stillness can we hear the truth of our own unique voices.
Pearl CleageRead
Any time your life is at stake and you can't find even one woman to come forward and say, 'This is a good man,' your problem isn't what kind of woman THEY are. Your problem is what kind of men YOU are.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that a lack of support or positive affirmation from women indicates a deeper issue with the men in question.
Pearl Cleage's quote emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and accountability in relationships. When a man finds himself without a single woman willing to vouch for his character, it suggests that the issue lies not with the women, but with his own inadequacies. This statement encourages men to examine their behavior and values, highlighting the necessary connection between personal integrity and healthy relationships.
In practice
This quote could be used in a workshop on men's behavior in relationships.
Loneliness is black coffee and late-night television; solitude is herb tea and soft music. Solitude, quality solitude, is an assertion of self-worth, because only in the stillness can we hear the truth of our own unique voices.
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I am dead. I have no desire for you. My body no longer wants the one who doesn’t love.
Our goal is to create a quality of empathic connection that allows everyone's needs to be met.
this is why we call people exes, I guess - because the paths that cross in the middle end up separating at the end. it's too easy to see an X as a cross-out. it's not, because there's no way to cross out something like that. the X is a diagram of two paths.
Essentially, the life of expression is the ongoing journey of how we heal each other... for by telling our stories and listening to the stories of others, we let out who we are and find ourselves in each other, and find that we are more together than alone.
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