Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have great sadness on earth.
Fyodor DostoevskyRead
Was it all put into words, or did both understand that they had the same thing at heart and in their minds, so that there was no need to speak of it aloud, and better not to speak of it?
Interpretation
Understanding can transcend spoken language in deep connections.
This quote by Fyodor Dostoevsky explores the profound connection between individuals who share a deep understanding of each other's feelings and thoughts. It suggests that sometimes, the essence of communication lies not in words, but in the silent acknowledgment of shared sentiments, indicating a bond that is often more significant than verbal expression.
In practice
During a wedding ceremony when the couple shares a moment of understanding without words.
Pain and suffering are always inevitable for a large intelligence and a deep heart. The really great men must, I think, have great sadness on earth.
What if, when this fog scatters and flies upward, the whole rotten, slimey city goes with it, rises with the fog and vanishes like smoke.
Love the animals: God has given them the rudiments of thought and joy untroubled.
Love the animals, love the plants, love everything. If you love everything, you will perceive the divine mystery in things. Once you perceive it, you will begin to comprehend it better every day. And you will come at last to love the whole world with an all-embracing love.
But do you understand, I cry to him, do you understand that if you have the guillotine in the forefront, and with such glee, it's for the sole reason that cutting heads off is the easiest thing, and having an idea is difficult!
...to return to their 'native soil,' as they say, to the bosom, so to speak, of their mother earth, like frightened children, yearning to fall asleep on the withered bosom of their decrepit mother, and to sleep there for ever, only to escape the horrors that terrify them.
In all legends men have thought of women as sublime separately but horrible in a herd.
So what’s wrong if there happens to be one guy in the world who enjoys trying to understand you?
Marriage is the most natural state of man, and therefore the state in which one is most likely to find solid happiness.
Being 'ethnically ambiguous', as I was pegged in the industry, meant I could audition for virtually any role. Morphing from Latina when I was dressed in red, to African American when in mustard yellow, my closet filled with fashionable frocks to make me look as racially varied as an Eighties Benetton poster.
It's the damage that we do and never know. It's the words that we don't say that scare me so.
I think we have to own the fears that we have of each other, and then, in some practical way, some daily way, figure out how to see people differently than the way we were brought up to.
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