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It's the damage that we do and never know. It's the words that we don't say that scare me so.
Elvis Costello
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The unspoken words and unacknowledged hurt can have a significant impact on our lives.

This quote by Elvis Costello reflects on the unseen consequences of our actions and the weight of unexpressed thoughts. It emphasizes that the harm we inflict, often unknowingly, and the fears associated with unspoken feelings can deeply affect our relationships and emotional well-being.

Themes

UnspokenRelationshipsWordsDamageFear

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about mental health, one could emphasize the importance of expressing feelings to avoid hidden damages.

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