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The concern that some women show at the absence of their husbands, does not arise from their not seeing them and being with them, but from their apprehension that their husbands are enjoying pleasures in which they do not participate, and which, from their being at a distance, they have not the power of interrupting.
Michel De Montaigne
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Women often worry about their husbands' absence due to fear of their husbands having fun without them.

This quote by Michel De Montaigne highlights a common concern among women regarding their husbands' absence. It suggests that the anxiety stems not merely from the physical separation, but from the worry that their partners are engaging in enjoyable activities that they themselves are excluded from, creating feelings of jealousy and insecurity about the relationship.

Themes

RelationshipAbsenceJealousyInsecurityCommunication

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be used during a relationship counseling session to discuss feelings of insecurity.

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