When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
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Trust is a product of vulnerability that grows over time and requires work, attention, and full engagement.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Trust develops through vulnerability and requires ongoing effort and commitment.
This quote emphasizes that trust is not something that can be taken for granted; it is built over time through vulnerability and authenticity. To nurture trust, individuals must actively engage with one another, demonstrating consistency and openness, which fosters deeper connections in relationships.
Themes
TrustVulnerabilityRelationshipsEngagementCommitment
In practice
Example use cases
In a workshop about teamwork, I would quote Bren Brown to highlight the importance of trust in building effective teams.
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