When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.
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Social media has given us this idea that we should all have a posse of friends when in reality, if we have one or two really good friends, we are lucky.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Social media creates unrealistic expectations about friendship, while true value lies in having a few close friends.
In this quote, Brené Brown highlights the contrast between the perception of friendship shaped by social media and the reality of meaningful relationships. She suggests that instead of aspiring for a large number of friends, we should appreciate the depth and quality of our connections, arguing that having just one or two genuine friends is a significant blessing.
Themes
FriendshipSocial MediaConnectionsRelationshipsQuality
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of real friendships, this quote can illustrate how social media distorts our view of companionship.
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