When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women's passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to call it that, makes American women a target and a victim of the sexual sell.
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If divorce has increased by one thousand percent, don't blame the women's movement. Blame the obsolete sex roles on which our marriages were based.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The increase in divorce rates should not be blamed on women's rights but rather on outdated gender roles that are unsustainable in modern marriages.
Betty Friedan's quote highlights the significant changes in societal norms regarding gender roles and marriage. She argues that the surge in divorce rates reflects a transformation in expectations and responsibilities within relationships, suggesting that rather than attributing this trend to the women's movement, it is essential to recognize that old-fashioned and rigid sexual roles are no longer viable for today's partnerships.
Themes
DivorceGender RolesWomen'S MovementMarriageSociety
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a lecture on gender studies to illustrate evolving societal norms.
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