When one begins to think about it, America depends rather heavily on women's passive dependence, their femininity. Femininity, if one still wants to call it that, makes American women a target and a victim of the sexual sell.
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Over and over again, stories in women's magazines insist that women can know fulfillment only at the moment of giving birth to a child. They deny the years when she can no longer look forward to giving birth, even if she repeats the act over and over again. In the feminine mystique, there is no other way for a woman to dream of creation or of the future. There is no other way she can even dream about herself, except as her children's mother, her husband's wife.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote critiques societal expectations placed on women, suggesting that fulfillment is often linked solely to motherhood.
Betty Friedan's quote addresses the restrictive narrative found in women's magazines, which implies that a woman's fulfillment can only be fully realized through motherhood. She highlights the limitations this mindset imposes, as it overlooks the potential for women's identity and aspirations beyond being a mother or a wife, confining their sense of self to traditional roles and denying them the possibility of dreaming about their personal future and self-actualization.
Themes
FulfillmentMotherhoodIdentityWomenSocietyRoles
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about women's rights and empowerment at a women's conference.
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