If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.
Interpretation
Believe in your own worth and do not seek validation from others.
This quote by Maya Angelou emphasizes the inherent value of every individual. It asserts that one does not need to justify their worth or abilities to others, as true self-acceptance comes from within, rather than from external approval. It encourages self-confidence and the importance of recognizing one's own uniqueness and capabilities.
In practice
Using this quote during a motivational speech on self-esteem.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
To be idle requires a strong sense of personal identity.
Admitting one's ignorance is the first step in acquiring knowledge.
You cannot go around and keep score. If you keep score on the good things and the bad things, you'll find out that you're a very miserable person. God gave man the ability to forget, which is one of the greatest attributes you have. Because if you remember everything that's happened to you, you generally remember that which is the most unfortunate.
Your reputation is in the hands of others. That's what the reputation is. You can't control that. The only thing you can control is your character.
The reality is, I like imperfection. You take away from the world when you're not yourself. Whatever is unique and special about you was designed by God. And when you try to be someone else, we don't get you. Who knows what you would have contributed to the world had you just been yourself, if you had just celebrated who you are and just walked boldly?
But there isn't any second half of myself waiting to plug in and make me whole. It's there. I'm already whole.
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