If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects the challenges one faces in relationships due to high personal expectations and intensity.
Maya Angelou acknowledges the difficulties of living with her due to her high standards and the challenges she presents, both to herself and to those around her. She recognizes that her drive and intensity can impact her relationships, making them more complex, but also enriching. This quote highlights the struggle between personal ambition and the dynamics of living with others, emphasizing that intense personalities can create both challenges and growth in relationships.
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This quote could be used in a discussion about personal growth and its impact on relationships.
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The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
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In order to be a mentor, and an effective one, one must care. You must care. You don't have to know how many square miles are in Idaho, you don't need to know what is the chemical makeup of chemistry, or of blood or water. Know what you know and care about the person, care about what you know and care about the person you're sharing with.
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