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We're always observing, and we're cautious people. We really want attention, but at the same time, we're ashamed of wanting attention. All those bizarre qualities of being outside are necessary for being a writer.
Min Jin Lee
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Writers often grapple with the desire for attention while feeling ashamed of this desire, which reflects the complexity of the creative process.

This quote by Min Jin Lee highlights the dual nature of writers and their relationship with attention. On one hand, they seek recognition and validation for their work; on the other hand, they feel a certain embarrassment or shame about this need. This internal conflict is rooted in the truth that creativity often demands vulnerability and observation, making these 'bizarre qualities' essential for the art of writing.

Themes

WritingAttentionCreativityVulnerabilityShame

In practice

Example use cases

In a workshop about the struggles of writing, this quote can be used to spark a discussion on the balance between seeking validation and remaining authentic.

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