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It is always the first and last steps that are the hardest to take. We walk away and try not to turn back, or we stand just outside the gates, terrified to find what's waiting for us now that we've returned. In between, we stumble blindly from one place and life to the next. We try to do the best we can. There are moments like this, however, when we are neither coming nor going, and all we have to do is sit and look back on the life we have made.
Dinaw Mengestu
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Life's journey often begins and ends with difficult decisions and reflections.

This quote reflects on the challenges and uncertainties we face at both the beginning and end of significant life changes. It emphasizes the idea that while the journey through life can feel chaotic and challenging, there are moments to pause and reflect on our choices, understanding that these pivotal points shape who we are and where we go next.

Themes

LifeJourneyReflectionChoicesChange

In practice

Example use cases

A speaker might use this quote in a motivational context to inspire students who are about to graduate.

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