Don't be so anxious about it,' she laughed. 'I'm not used to being loved. I wouldn't know what to do; I never got the trick of it.' She looked down at him, shy and fatigued. 'So here we are. I told you years ago that I had the makings of Cinderella.' He took her hand; she drew it back instinctively and then replaced it in his. 'Beg your pardon. Not even used to being touched. But I'm not afraid of you, if you stay quiet and don't move suddenly.
Life is essentially a cheat and its conditions are those of defeat; the redeeming things are not happiness and pleasure but the deeper satisfactions that come out of struggle.
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What this quote means
Life involves struggle and challenges rather than mere happiness, and true satisfaction comes from overcoming these difficulties.
F. Scott Fitzgerald's quote encapsulates the idea that life is filled with hardships and defeats, and while people often pursue happiness and pleasure, these are not the ultimate sources of fulfillment. Instead, the deeper, more meaningful satisfactions arise from our struggles and the growth that comes from overcoming obstacles. This perspective encourages a more profound appreciation for the challenges we face, as they contribute significantly to our character and sense of achievement.
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During a motivational speech about resilience, I might say, 'As F. Scott Fitzgerald put it, 'Life is essentially a cheat...' to emphasize the importance of overcoming challenges.
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