We are all the heroes and heroines of our own lives. Our love stories are amazingly romantic; our losses and betrayals and disappointments are gigantic in our own minds.
Maeve BinchyRead
I have always believed that life is too short for rows and disagreements. Even if I think I'm right, I would prefer to apologize and remain friends rather than win and be an enemy.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the importance of maintaining friendships over being right in disagreements.
Maeve Binchy emphasizes that life is fleeting, and it's more valuable to preserve relationships than to engage in conflict over who is correct. She advocates for humility and the willingness to apologize, suggesting that the emotional cost of winning a trivial argument is far greater than the meaningful connection we share with others.
In practice
In a speech about conflict resolution, one might quote this to encourage understanding over argument.
We are all the heroes and heroines of our own lives. Our love stories are amazingly romantic; our losses and betrayals and disappointments are gigantic in our own minds.
I don't have ugly ducklings turning into swans in my stories. I have ugly ducklings turning into confident ducks.
There are no makeovers in my books. The ugly duckling does not become a beautiful swan. She becomes a confident duck able to take charge of her own life and problems.
The most important thing to realise is that everyone is capable of telling a story. It doesn't matter where we were born or how we grew up.
The most important thing to realize is that everyone is capable of telling a story.
We're nothing if we're not loved. When you meet somebody who is more important to you than yourself, that has to be the most important thing.
Marriage is a career which brings about more benefits than many others.
I know the anger lies inside of me like I know the beat of my heart and the taste of my spit. It is easier to be furious than to be yearning. Easier to crucify myself in you than to take on the threatening universe of whiteness by admitting that we are worth wanting each other.
I've had your tears with mine, and you've had mine with yours. I think that's more intimate even than a kiss.
Psychologists call this habituation, economists call it declining marginal utility, and the rest of us call it marriage.
If we want our daughters to honor their bodies, they need to hear us honor ours, no matter what size or shape we are, no matter what scars or sags we see in that mirror.
Oh! you are a great deal too apt, you know, to like people in general. You never see fault in any body. All the world are good and agreeable in your eyes. I never heard you speak ill of a human being in my life." "I would wish not to be hasty in censuring any one; but I always speak what I think.
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