Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
Edward AbbeyRead
I love America because it is a confused, chaotic mess - and I hope we can keep it this way for at least another thousand years. The permissive society is the free society.
Interpretation
The quote reflects a love for the complexity and chaos of America, suggesting that freedom thrives in a permissive society.
Edward Abbey expresses an affection for America rooted in its chaos and confusion, viewing these traits as integral to its identity. He argues that a permissive society, one that embraces ambiguity and complexity, is fundamental to maintaining freedom, and he expresses a desire for this state to continue for a long time, indicating a belief that such chaos fosters creativity and growth.
In practice
In a speech about cultural identity, I would quote Abbey to emphasize the importance of accepting our differences.
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
If it's knowledge and wisdom you want, then seek out the company of those who do real work for an honest purpose.
The earth is real. Only a fool, milking his cow, denies the cow's reality.
I believe in nothing that I cannot touch, kiss, embrace.... The rest is only hearsay.
Why can't we simply borrow what is useful to us from Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, especially Zen, as we borrow from Christianity, science, American Indian traditions and world literature in general, including philosophy, and let the rest go hang? Borrow what we need but rely principally upon our own senses, common sense and daily living experience.
Man's deliberate destruction of his own habitat -- planet Earth -- could serve as a mighty theme for a mighty book worthy of a modern Melville or Tolstoy. But our best fictioneers confine themselves to domestic drama -- soap opera with literary trimmings.
Really important meetings are planned by the souls long before the bodies see each other. Generally speaking, these meetings occur when we reach a limit, when we need to die and be reborn emotionally. These meetings are waiting for us, but more often than not, we avoid them happening. If we are desperate, though, if we have nothing to lose, or if we are full of enthusiasm for life, then the unknown reveals itself, and our universe changes direction.
A quarrel is quickly settled when deserted by one party; there is no battle unless there be two.
One murder makes a villain; millions, a hero.
In the name of what - except perhaps the coefficient of rarity - does man adorn himself with necklaces of shells and not spider's webs, with fox fur and not fox innards? In the name of what I don't know. Don't dirt, trash and filth, which are man's companions during his whole lifetime, deserve to be dearer to him and isn't it serving him well to remind him of their beauty?
As Christ was born of the Virgin's womb, so must He be spiritually formed in our hearts. As He died for sin, so must we die to sin. And as He rose again from the dead, so must we also rise to a divine life.
The world is nothing but my perception of it. I see only through myself. I hear only through the filter of my story.
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