I love America because it is a confused, chaotic mess - and I hope we can keep it this way for at least another thousand years. The permissive society is the free society.
Edward AbbeyRead
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Conflict in relationships can indicate a deeper need for each other.
This quote by Edward Abbey suggests that contrary to the common perception that only harmonious couples are truly connected, even those who argue frequently may share a profound bond. The intensity of conflict can sometimes reflect a passionate interdependence, implying that love can manifest in various forms, including through struggles and disagreements.
Themes
RelationshipsLoveConflictMarriageBonding
In practice
Example use cases
During a relationship counseling session, when discussing the dynamics of love and conflict.
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Why can't we simply borrow what is useful to us from Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, especially Zen, as we borrow from Christianity, science, American Indian traditions and world literature in general, including philosophy, and let the rest go hang? Borrow what we need but rely principally upon our own senses, common sense and daily living experience.
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