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Ammu loved her children (of course), but their wide-eyed vulnerability and their willingness to love people who didn't really love them exasperated her and sometimes made her want to hurt them-- just as an education, a precaution.
Arundhati Roy
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Ammu's love for her children is complicated by her concern for their innocence and vulnerability.

In this quote, Arundhati Roy explores the complex emotions of a mother who loves her children deeply but feels frustrated by their naivety and their capacity to love unconditionally, even those who do not reciprocate that love. It highlights the protective instincts of a parent, who may feel a desire to shield their children from potential heartbreak, reflecting a mixture of love, fear, and the desire to prepare them for a harsher reality.

Themes

LoveChildrenVulnerabilityParentingHeartbreak

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about the challenges of parenting.

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