Speak the truth, do not yield to anger; give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go near the gods.
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Among us, in our part of the country, those who are upright are different from this. The father conceals the misconduct of the son, and the son conceals the misconduct of the father. Uprightness is to be found in this.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Uprightness involves mutual protection and understanding within familial relationships, highlighting a complex morality.
In this quote, Confucius presents a nuanced view of uprightness, suggesting that true morality may involve concealing faults within family dynamics. This perspective challenges the conventional notion of uprightness, as it illustrates how familial loyalty can sometimes take precedence over absolute honesty, thus revealing the intricate balance between ethical behavior and personal relationships.
Themes
UprightnessFamilyMoralityLoyaltyConcealment
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about family ethics, one might quote this to illustrate the complexity of familial loyalty.
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