We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
Cato The ElderRead
An angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes.
Interpretation
Anger clouds judgment and perception.
This quote highlights how anger can lead to a loss of composure, causing a person to speak impulsively without truly listening or seeing the situation clearly. It serves as a reminder that in moments of rage, we may not only fail to understand others but also fail to see the greater context of our actions and responses.
In practice
This quote could be used in a speech about emotional intelligence.
We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.
Tis sometimes the height of wisdom to feign stupidity.
Lighter is the wound foreseen.
Patience is the greatest of all virtues.
An orator is a good man who is skilled in speaking.
Thinking cannot be clear until it has had expression-we must write, or speak, or act our thoughts, or they will remain in half torpid form. Our feelings must have expression, or they will be as clouds, which, till they descend in rain, will never bring up fruit or flowers. So it is with all the inward feelings; expression gives them development-thought is the blossom; language is the opening bud; action the fruit behind it.
Muscle mass does not always equal strength. Strength is kindness and sensitivity. Strength is understanding that your power is both physical and emotional. That it comes from the body and the mind. And the heart.
Ideas are the easy part. I spend a lot of time batting them away, trying to keep them from distracting me from what I actually have to focus on and finish. A lot of times, they are a siren temptress beckoning me with the promise of a much shorter, simpler, more slender novel over the horizon, but of course that's very dangerous.
Muses are fickle, and many a writer, peering into the voice, has escaped paralysis by ascribing the creative responsibility to a talisman: a lucky charm, a brand of paper, but most often a writing instrument. Am I writing well? Thank my pen. Am I writing badly? Don't blame me blame my pen. By such displacements does the fearful imagination defend itself.
Your greatest adversary is also your greatest teacher. Like it or not, it is the job of certain people to bring out the worst in you. What they trigger is already in you. They are here to reveal the sore, tender wounded places in your heart and mind, and they are providing you with a wonderful and divine opportunity for healing.
It is natural to indulge in the illusions of hope. We are apt to shut our eyes to that siren until she allures us to our death.
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