We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
Cato The ElderRead
Tis sometimes the height of wisdom to feign stupidity.
Interpretation
Sometimes, appearing foolish can be a smart strategy to navigate complex situations.
This quote by Cato the Elder suggests that there are times when it may be wise to downplay one's intelligence or knowledge. By feigning ignorance or simplicity, one might achieve strategic advantages, avoid conflict, or gain insights that would not be available if one was perceived as overly intelligent or knowledgeable. It indicates the complexity of wisdom, where sometimes the best course of action is not to display all one's abilities.
In practice
In a discussion where tensions are high, one might quote this to suggest that holding back a strong opinion could be more beneficial.
We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
An angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes.
I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.
Lighter is the wound foreseen.
Patience is the greatest of all virtues.
An orator is a good man who is skilled in speaking.
During the day extend that attitude to everyone you meet. Practice cherishing the "simplest" person (clerks, attendants, etc) or people you dislike.
I heard many discourses which were good for the soul, but I could not discover in the case of any one of the teachers that his life was worthy of his words.
Out of anger comes controversy, out of controversy comes conversation, out of conversation comes action.
When one is trying to do something beyond his known powers it is useless to seek the approval of friends. Friends are at their best in moments of defeat.
Considering how foolishly people act and how pleasantly they prattle, perhaps it would be better for the world if they talked more and did less.
I curled myself into a ball and cried quietly, doing that thing that only young people can do, namely, feeling sorry for myself. Once you're past thirty you lose that ability; instead of feeling sorry for yourself you turn bitter.
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