We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
Cato The ElderRead
Tis sometimes the height of wisdom to feign stupidity.
Interpretation
Sometimes, appearing foolish can be a smart strategy to navigate complex situations.
This quote by Cato the Elder suggests that there are times when it may be wise to downplay one's intelligence or knowledge. By feigning ignorance or simplicity, one might achieve strategic advantages, avoid conflict, or gain insights that would not be available if one was perceived as overly intelligent or knowledgeable. It indicates the complexity of wisdom, where sometimes the best course of action is not to display all one's abilities.
In practice
In a discussion where tensions are high, one might quote this to suggest that holding back a strong opinion could be more beneficial.
We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them.
An angry man opens his mouth and shuts his eyes.
I think the first virtue is to restrain the tongue; he approaches nearest to gods who knows how to be silent, even though he is in the right.
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Sometimes I believe that God wants to try me, both now and later on; I must become good through my own efforts, without examples and without good advice.
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