The poet is one who is able to keep the fresh vision of the child alive.
Anais NinRead
Anxiety is love's greatest killer, because it is like the stranglehold of the drowning.
Interpretation
Anxiety can suffocate love and relationships, much like drowning restricts one's ability to breathe.
In this quote, Anais Nin highlights how anxiety can be detrimental to love and intimacy. Just as drowning is a physical struggle against water that restricts airflow, anxiety can choke the emotional connection in relationships, leading to misunderstandings and distance between partners. This notion emphasizes the importance of managing anxiety to foster healthier and more fulfilling connections.
In practice
This quote can be used in a therapy session to discuss the impact of anxiety on relationships.
The poet is one who is able to keep the fresh vision of the child alive.
We celebrate peace. Yet we pay no attention to the ways of curing aggression in human beings. And when one sees in psychoanalysis hostility disappearing as people conquer their fears, one wonders if the cure is not there.
The impetus to grow and live intensely is so powerful in me I cannot resist it. I will work, I will love my husband, but I will fulfill myself.
We have been poisoned by fairy tales.
But I lie. I embellish. My words are not deep enough. They disguise, they conceal. I will not rest until I have told of my descent into a sensuality which was as dark, as magnificent, as wild, as my moments of mystic creation have been dazzling, ecstatic, exalted.
I gathered poets around me and we all wrote beautiful erotica. As we were condemned to focus only on sensuality, we had violent explosions of poetry. Writing erotica became a road to sainthood rather than to debauchery.
Men are allowed to have passion and commitment for their work... a woman is allowed that feeling for a man, but not her work.
BahΓ‘'Γ marriage is union and cordial affection between the two parties. They must, however, exercise the utmost care and become acquainted with each other's character. This eternal bond should be made secure by a firm covenant, and the intention should be to foster harmony, fellowship and unity and to attain everlasting life.
When we set out on the path, we always have a fairly clear idea of what we hope to find. Women are generally seeking their Soul Mate, and men looking for Power. Neither party is really interested in learning. They simply want to reach the thing they have set as their goal.
Old people, who have felt blows and toil and known the world's hard hand, need, even more than children do, a woman's tenderness.
People - I mean couples - don't like to talk much about fighting. It's not attractive. No one likes to admit it or describe it or lay claim to it. We want our coupledoms to look... sanitized and pretty and worthy of admiration. And anger blasts are ugly. But, I think that is a crock. There is a kind of fighting that isn't ugly. There is a way for anger to come our as an energy you let loose and away. The trick is to give it a form, and not a human target. The trick is to transform rage.
But uhh, a thug changes, and love changes_x000D_ and best friends become strangers, word up
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