Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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If anyone tells you that a certain person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you but answer, "He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the idea that criticism often overlooks our broader character flaws.
Epictetus suggests that when someone speaks negatively about us, rather than defend ourselves or excuse our faults, we should recognize that their view is limited. Their criticism reveals their ignorance of the entirety of our being, as they only highlight what they perceive, neglecting the complexity of our character and other shortcomings.
Themes
CriticismIgnoranceCharacterSelf-Awareness
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about resilience, this quote can be used to encourage someone to rise above negative feedback.
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