Whenever ego suffers from fear of death & your practice turns to seeing impermanence, ego settles down.
Tsoknyi RinpocheRead
You don't have to say anything. You don't have to teach anything. You just have to be who you are: a bright flame shining in the darkness of despair, a shining example of a person able to cross bridges by opening your heart and mind.
Interpretation
Embrace your authentic self as a source of inspiration for others.
This quote emphasizes the power of being true to oneself and how authenticity can serve as a guiding light for others. Rather than focusing on teaching or instructing, the quote suggests that simply living as your true self can illuminate the path for those experiencing despair, ultimately fostering connection and understanding through openness and vulnerability.
In practice
During a motivational talk about overcoming adversity.
Whenever ego suffers from fear of death & your practice turns to seeing impermanence, ego settles down.
Simply let experience take place very freely, so that your open heart is suffused with the tenderness of true compassion.
Practicing discipline involves continually working to find space in our patterns, to find the gaps in the images we hold about ourselves. It also means finding the gaps in our ideas about others, releasing images that we hold about a manager, a coworker, a friend, or a partner.
We believe deep down that we've lost something precious and are seeking it outside ourselves, never realizing that we are carrying it within us wherever we go.
Criticism should not be querulous and wasting, all knife and root-puller, but guiding, instructive, inspiring, a south wind, not an east wind.
Knowledge is of more value than gold
The noblest revenge is to forgive
It's all about knowing that everybody that you see, everybody that you sit across from is a different aspect of yourself. So once you can accept yourself on every level, that's when everything opens up, that's when the party really begins.
If people find that controversial then I would just refer them to the Sermon on the Mount.
You never get over losses. I've never gotten over one loss I've had in my career. They always stick with me.
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