We wait till now? Now, when we're old men, we get to be brave?
Anytime a child is born, the old people look in his face and ask him if he's the One.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The birth of a child evokes hope and expectations from the older generation about the child's potential impact on the future.
In this quote, Ernest Gaines reflects on the wisdom and expectations that the older generation places on newborns. The act of older people looking into a child's face and questioning if the child is 'the One' suggests a deep cultural belief that each new life has the potential to bring about significant change or to fulfill a vital role in the community, symbolizing hope, legacy, and continuity through generations.
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In practice
Example use cases
During a family gathering, one might use this quote to spark a discussion about the hopes and dreams parents have for their children.
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