I've come to recognize what I call my 'inside interests.' Telling stories. And helping people tell their stories is a sort of interpersonal gardening. My work at NBC News was to report the news, but in hindsight, I often tried to look for some insight to share that might spark a moment of recognition in a viewer.
I came back to work when my children were two months old. At that early age, they seem to have little awareness of anybody but their Raggedy Ann dolls, so it wasn't a matter of them missing me. I was missing them.
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What this quote means
The quote reflects the emotional bond between a parent and their young children, emphasizing the parent's feelings of absence more than the children's awareness.
In this quote, Jane Pauley expresses the poignant reality of a parent's return to work shortly after childbirth, capturing the bittersweet nature of early parenthood. While her children are too young to truly miss her, she articulates a deep sense of longing and emotional connection, highlighting how strong parental love can lead to feelings of separation and loss, even when children are too young to understand.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a parenting workshop, to illustrate the complexities of returning to work after having a baby.
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