When we ask for advice, we are usually looking for an accomplice.
Saul BellowRead
Associate with the noblest people you can find; read the best books; live with the mighty; but learn to be happy alone.
Interpretation
Surround yourself with greatness but find contentment in solitude.
This quote emphasizes the importance of associating with inspiring individuals and engaging with quality literature while also cultivating a sense of happiness and fulfillment in one's own company. It suggests that true happiness comes not solely from external sources but also from within, encouraging individuals to balance their relationships with self-sufficiency and inner peace.
In practice
This quote could be shared at a graduation ceremony to inspire students to seek quality associations while embracing who they are.
When we ask for advice, we are usually looking for an accomplice.
In here, the human bosom -- mine, yours, everybody's -- there isn't just one soul. There's a lot of souls. But there are two main ones, the real soul and a pretender soul. Now! Every man realizes that he has to love something or somebody. He feels that he must go outward. 'If thou canst not love, what art thou?' Are you with me?
I've discovered that rejections are not altogether a bad thing. They teach a writer to rely on his own judgment and to say in his heart of hearts, 'To hell with you.'
I see that I've become a really bad correspondent. It's not that I don't think of you. You come into my thoughts often. But when you do it appears to me that I owe you a particularly grand letter. And so you end in the "warehouse of good intentions": "Can't do it now." "Then put it on hold." This is one's strategy for coping with old age, and with death--because one can't die with so many obligations in storage. Our clever species, so fertile and resourceful in denying its weaknesses.
A great deal of intelligence can be invested in ignorance when the need for illusion is deep.
Goodness is achieved not in a vacuum, but in the company of other men, attended by love.
Don't accept or be crippled by the media hype that aging is bad or shameful.
My dad was a very quiet person, and unbelievably tough. But my grandmother gave me my first look at negative thinking to bring about positive results. When I was just a little guy, anytime I came to my grandmother and said I wish for this or that, Grandma would say, 'If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.'
The knowledge and skills you have achieved are meant to be forgotten so you can float comfortably in emptiness, without obstruction.
βOnce we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.
Fear is a disease that eats away at logic and makes man inhuman.
There is an authentic biology of hope. Belief and expectation - the key elements of hope - can block pain by releasing the brain's endorphins and enkephalins, mimicking the effects of morphine.
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