I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
beware the average man the average woman beware their love, their love is average seeks average but there is genius in their hatred there is enough genius in their hatred to kill you to kill anybody not wanting solitude not understanding solitude they will attempt to destroy anything that differs from their own not being able to create art they will not understand art they will consider their failure as creators only as a failure of the world
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What this quote means
This quote warns against conforming to mediocrity and highlights the destructive power of those who cannot appreciate individuality.
Charles Bukowski's quote emphasizes the dangers posed by the 'average' person, suggesting that while they pursue mediocrity in love and life, they possess a dangerous intensity in their hatred towards anything that deviates from their norm. This reflects a profound misunderstanding of solitude and creativity, implying that those who cannot create art often react with hostility towards those who can, leading to a cycle of negativity and destruction against uniqueness and individuality.
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Example use cases
In a speech about embracing individuality, you might quote Bukowski to illustrate the perils of conforming to mediocrity.
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