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We face up to awful things because we can't go around them, or forget them. The sooner you get it over with, the sooner you say 'Yes, it happened, and there's nothing I can do about it,' the sooner you can get on with your own life. You've got children to bring up. So you've got to get over it. What we have to get over, somehow we do. Even the worst things.
Annie Proulx
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Interpretation

What this quote means

We must confront difficult situations instead of avoiding them to move forward in life.

Annie Proulx emphasizes the importance of facing our challenges head-on, rather than trying to escape or forget them. By accepting the reality of our circumstances and acknowledging that tough things happen, we free ourselves to move on and focus on what truly matters in our lives, like raising children and finding joy in the present.

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ConfrontationAcceptanceMoving OnCourageLife

In practice

Example use cases

A motivational speaker might use this quote to inspire people to address their fears.

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