Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,'I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I'm signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It's going to be hard but I want to get there.
Bad evangelism says: I'm right, you're wrong, and I would love to tell you about it
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What this quote means
This quote critiques a confrontational style of sharing beliefs that alienates others. It emphasizes the importance of dialogue over dogmatism.
Timothy Keller highlights the shortcomings of aggressive or confrontational evangelism, suggesting that a mindset that prioritizes being 'right' over understanding others can lead to disconnection and hostility. Rather than establishing meaningful conversations, this approach can often create barriers between individuals. Keller advocates for a more respectful and empathetic approach to sharing one's beliefs, promoting understanding and genuine dialogue over merely asserting oneβs correctness.
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Example use cases
In a debate about beliefs, this quote can remind participants to engage respectfully.
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