Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
Alexander PopeRead
Beauties in vain their pretty eyes may roll; charms strike the sight, but merit wins the soul.
Interpretation
Outer beauty can attract attention, but true value lies in one's character and merit.
This quote by Alexander Pope emphasizes that while physical beauty can be appealing and catch the eye, it is ultimately the inner qualities and virtues of a person that truly resonate and connect with the soul. The superficial charm might draw someone in, but lasting admiration and affection are founded on merit, integrity, and character.
In practice
During a speech at a wedding, one might say this quote to highlight the importance of inner qualities in a lasting relationship.
Do good by stealth, and blush to find it fame.
What dire offence from am'rous causes springs, What mighty contests rise from trivial things.
Fair tresses man's imperial race ensnare; And beauty draws us with a single hair.
An honest man's the noblest work of God.
One thought of thee puts all the pomp to flight;_x000D_ _x000D_ Priests, tapers, temples, swim before my sight.
Who breaks a butterfly on a wheel?
The act of love . . . is a confession. Selfishness screams aloud, vanity shows off, or else true generosity reveals itself.
There is no denying that consideration of others is worthwhile and that our happiness is inextricably bound up with the happiness of others. There is no denying that if society suffers, we ourselves suffer, and the more our hearts and minds are afflicted with ill-will, the more miserable we become. We can reject religion, ideology, received wisdom, but we cannot escape the need for love and compassion.
Love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust.
He, full of bashfulness and truth, loved much, hoped little, and desired naught.
Love does not alter the beloved, it alters itself.
I love thee so, that, maugre all thy pride,_x000D_ _x000D_ Nor wit nor reason can my passion hide._x000D_ _x000D_ Do not extort thy reasons from this clause,_x000D_ _x000D_ For that I woo, thou therefore hast no cause_x000D_ _x000D_ But rather reason thus with reason fetter,_x000D_ _x000D_ Love sought is good, but given unsought better.
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