We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
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It is beautiful to be alone, it is also beautiful to to be in love, to be with people. And they are complementary, not contradictory.
Interpretation
Being alone and being in love both have their own beauty and can coexist harmoniously.
The quote suggests that solitude and companionship are not mutually exclusive but rather two aspects of the human experience that enrich our lives. Embracing both allows for personal growth and deeper connections with others, highlighting the idea that they can complement each other rather than contradict each other.
In practice
During a discussion about the importance of self-love at a workshop.
We start making every child ambitious, and ambition means you cannot love; ambition is anti-love. Ambition needs fight, ambition needs struggle, ambition needs you to use others as a means.
The technique of positive thinking is not a technique that transforms you. It is simply repressing the negative aspects of your personality. It is a method of choice. It cannot help awareness; it goes against awareness. Awareness is always choiceless.
Only those persons who have lived, really lived, are ready, welcoming, receptive, thankful to death. Then death is not the enemy. Then death becomes the fulfillment.
Creativity has two possibilities. One is that it arises out of your silence, love, understanding, your clarity of vision, your intimate friendliness with existence - then creativity is healthy. But if it does not arise out of meditation, out of silence and peace and understanding and love, then there is a danger. It may be arising out of your confused mind. It may be arising out of your insanity.
There is no separate art of life. If you know how to allow poetry, if you know how to allow dance, if you know how to allow love - if you know how to ALLOW, then you know the art of life. In the allowing, in the let-go, in the surrender, is the art of life. How not to be and to let God be - that is the only art of life.
Love is not a relationship, love is a state of being; it has nothing to do with anybody else. One is not "in love", one is love. And of course when one is love, one is in love β but that is an outcome, a by-product, that is not the source. The source is that one is love.
He's all my exercise, my mirth, my matter.
Thou tyrant, tyrant Jealousy, Thou tyrant of the mind!
If I profane with my unworthiest hand_x000D_ _x000D_ This holy shrine, the gentle fine is this:_x000D_ _x000D_ My lips, two blushing pilgrims, ready stand_x000D_ _x000D_ To smooth that rough touch with a tender kiss.
Your ordinary acts of love and hope point to the extraordinary promise that every human life is of inestimable value.
... Chicago divided your heart. Leaving you loving the joint for keeps. Yet knowing it never can love you.
Love is easy, and I love writing. You can't resist love. You get an idea, someone says something, and you're in love.
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