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What are you thinking?” She asks. -That you are beautiful. That not everyone could see it. I almost became the kind of person who could not.
Mary Gaitskill
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Interpretation

What this quote means

The quote reflects on the perception of beauty and the struggle of recognizing it in oneself and others.

In this quote, the speaker expresses the thought of beauty in another person and acknowledges that such beauty can often go unnoticed. It reveals an internal conflict where the speaker almost succumbed to a perspective that diminishes appreciation for beauty, highlighting the importance of recognizing and valuing both inner and outer beauty.

Themes

BeautyPerceptionSelf-ReflectionRecognitionAppreciation

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a speech about self-acceptance and recognizing beauty in ourselves and others.

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