When what you read elevates your mind and fills you with noble aspirations, look for no other rule by which to judge a book; it is good, and is the work of a master-hand.
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At the beginning and at the end of love, the two lovers are embarrassed to find themselves alone.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love can be both an intimate and isolating experience as it often leaves individuals feeling vulnerable.
This quote by Jean De La Bruyere highlights the paradox of love, where feelings of embarrassment and vulnerability arise in moments of solitude shared between lovers. It suggests that the intensity of love can bring forth both closeness and a sense of discomfort, particularly when one finds themselves alone with their partner, reflecting on their deep emotional connection.
Themes
LoveEmbarrassmentSolitudeIntimacyVulnerability
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used during a wedding speech to acknowledge the emotional complexities of love.
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