When what you read elevates your mind and fills you with noble aspirations, look for no other rule by which to judge a book; it is good, and is the work of a master-hand.
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We seldom repent of speaking little, very often of speaking too much: a vulgar and trite maxim, which all the world knows and, but which all the world does not practice
Interpretation
What this quote means
Talking less often leads to fewer regrets, while excessive speech frequently results in remorse.
This quote highlights the wisdom in practicing restraint in our speech. While many are aware that less talking can prevent misunderstandings and regrets, few actually apply this principle in their daily lives, leading to moments of regret stemming from hasty or careless words.
Themes
SpeechRegretWisdomRestraintCommunication
In practice
Example use cases
In a team meeting, when discussing sensitive issues, one could quote this to encourage everyone to think before they speak.
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