When what you read elevates your mind and fills you with noble aspirations, look for no other rule by which to judge a book; it is good, and is the work of a master-hand.
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A man of the world must seem to be what he wishes to be thought.
Interpretation
What this quote means
One should project an image that aligns with their aspirations to be perceived positively by others.
This quote by Jean De La Bruyere suggests that individuals often need to consciously craft the image they present to the world in order to align with their goals and desires. It emphasizes the importance of perception and suggests that people will likely judge others based on their outward appearances and behaviors, making it crucial for one to understand and manage how they wish to be perceived in social settings.
Themes
PerceptionImageIdentityAspirationSocialBehavior
In practice
Example use cases
In a job interview, one could use this quote to explain the importance of presenting oneself confidently.
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