One reason I don't drink is that I want to know when I am having a good time.
I married beneath me. All women do.
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What this quote means
The quote expresses a view on the dynamics of marriage and societal expectations regarding partners.
Nancy Astor's quote reflects a provocative perspective on marriage, particularly from the viewpoint of women in her time. It suggests that women often perceive themselves as marrying 'beneath' their status or worth, which highlights an ingrained societal notion that may undervalue women's choices and feelings in romantic relationships. This statement can be seen as a critique of the expectations placed on women and a commentary on their roles within society and marriage.
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This quote could be used in a discussion about gender roles during a panel on women's rights.
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And what if I never go of my own free will? Will you pitch me from some window so that I must fly or fall? Will you bolt all shutters after me? You had better, because I'll knock and knock and knock until I fall down dead. I'll have no wings that take me away from you.