A dogmatic belief in objective value is necessary to the very idea of a rule which is not tyranny or an obedience which is not slavery.
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We have failed to practise ourselves the kind of behaviour we expect from other people.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We often expect behaviors from others that we do not show ourselves.
This quote emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and accountability in our relationships. C. S. Lewis points out that we frequently set standards for others that we fail to uphold ourselves, suggesting that before expecting kindness, honesty, or respect from others, we must first demonstrate these qualities in our own behavior.
Themes
BehaviourExpectationsAccountabilityValuesSelf-Reflection
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about community values, one might reference this quote to highlight the importance of personal integrity.
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