What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
George Bernard ShawRead
The best bought-up children are those who have seen thier parents as they are. Hypocrisy is not the first duty of a parent.
Interpretation
Children learn from their parents' authenticity rather than their facade.
This quote emphasizes the importance of authenticity in parenting. George Bernard Shaw highlights that for children to develop properly, they need to see their parents as they truly are, rather than living in a facade of hypocrisy. Genuine behavior from parents sets a strong example for children, fostering an environment of honesty and integrity.
In practice
During a parenting workshop, I could use this quote to highlight the importance of being a role model.
What we want is to see the child in pursuit of knowledge, and not knowledge in pursuit of the child.
Marriage is good enough for the lower classes: they have facilities for desertion that are denied to us.
Forgive him, for he believes that the customs of his tribe are the laws of nature!
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Treat a friend as a person who may someday become your enemy; an enemy as a person who may someday become your friend.
The happiness of credulity is a cheap and dangerous quality.
I was lucky to have such a loving, crazy family. I learned to give and share.
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Making the family a top priority will invariably bring success.
Working moms commonly testify that they feel guilty when they are away from their children and guilty when they are not at their jobs. Devoted fathers certainly miss their children deeply, but it does not seem to be with the same gnawing, primal anxiety that often afflicts women.
To go to the synagogue with one's father on the Passover eve - is there in the world a greater pleasure than that? What is it worth to be dressed in new clothes from head to foot, and to show off before one's friends? Then the prayers themselves - the first Festival evening prayer and blessing.
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