All we can do is to make the best of our friends, love and cherish what is good in them, and keep out of the way what is bad.
Interpretation
We should appreciate and nurture the good qualities in our friends while avoiding their negative traits.
This quote by Thomas Jefferson emphasizes the importance of valuing and cherishing the positive aspects of our friendships, suggesting that we focus on the goodness in our friends and try to minimize the impact of their flaws. It highlights the notion that relationships are built on appreciation and understanding, and that recognizing both strengths and weaknesses is key to maintaining strong connections.
In practice
In a speech about the importance of companionship, one could cite this quote to emphasize valuing friends.
The firmness with which the (American) people have withstood the... abuses of the press, the discernment they have manifested between truth and falsehood, show that they may safely be trusted to hear everything true and false and to form a correct judgment between them.
I, place economy among the first & most important republican virtues, & public debt as the greatest of the dangers to be feared
βWe must make our choice between economy and liberty or confusion and servitude...If we run into such debts, we must be taxed in our meat and drink, in our necessities and comforts, in our labor and in our amusements...if we can prevent the government from wasting the labor of the people, under the pretense of caring for them, they will be happy.
Very many and very meritorious were the worthy patriots who assisted in bringing back our government to its republican tack. To preserve it in that, will require unremitting vigilance.
A nation, as a society, forms a moral person, and every member of it is personally responsible for his society.
Timid men prefer the calm of despotism to the tempestuous sea of liberty.
You should be nicer to him,' a schoolmate had once said to me of some awfully ill-favored boy. 'He has no friends.' This, I realized with a pang of pity that I can still remember, was only true as long as everybody agreed to it.
We cannot always assure the future of our friends; we have a better chance of assuring our future if we remember who our friends are.
We were not just competitors and colleagues, we were friends. We had a lot of opportunities to reflect on this in the last year. It was a competitive brotherhood.
Farewell, and may the blessing of Elves and Men and all Free Folk go with you. May the stars shine upon your faces!
You haven't got a letter on yours," George observed. "I suppose she thinks you don't forget your name. But we're not stupid-we know we're called Gred and Forge.
All male friendships are essentially quixotic: they last only so long as each man is willing to polish the shaving-bowl helmet, climb on his donkey, and ride off after the other in pursuit of illusive glory and questionable adventure.
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