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But say what you will, 'tis better to be left than never to have been loved. To pass our youth in dull indifference, to refuse the sweets of life because they once must leave us, is as preposterous as to wish to have been born old, because we one day must be old.
William Congreve
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Interpretation

What this quote means

It's better to experience love and loss than to never have loved at all.

This quote emphasizes the value of love and the experiences that come with it, suggesting that even though love can lead to pain and loss, it is preferable to pass one’s life without the richness that love provides. Congreve argues against living in fear of loss, advocating for embracing love's joys, even with the understanding that they are temporary.

Themes

LoveExperienceLossLifeYouth

In practice

Example use cases

A speaker at a wedding might use this quote to celebrate the beauty of love.

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