To operate based on conviction and belief requires an acceptance that your actions could get you fired. This is different from pig-headed bravado, and it is different from putting the company at risk.
Simon SinekRead
It is better to disappoint people with the truth than to appease them with a lie.
Interpretation
Honesty is more valuable than false assurances.
This quote emphasizes the importance of truthfulness, suggesting that it is preferable to confront others with reality, even if it leads to disappointment, rather than deceive them with comforting but falsehoods. It encourages individuals to acknowledge the potential pain of honesty over the temporary comfort that lies can provide, ultimately valuing integrity and transparency in relationships.
In practice
In a team meeting discussing project viability, you might say this quote to encourage transparency.
To operate based on conviction and belief requires an acceptance that your actions could get you fired. This is different from pig-headed bravado, and it is different from putting the company at risk.
The most basic human desire is to feel like you belong. Fitting in is important.
Every company knows what they do _x000D_ Some know how they do it _x000D_ Very few know why
Leaders donβt complain about whatβs not working. Leaders celebrate what is working and work to amplify it.
We can rationalize anything and easily quit on ourselves. Leadership is refusing to quit on others.
The trick to balance is to not make sacrificing important things become the norm.
I expect you have seen someone put a a lighted match to a bit of newspaper which is propped up in a grate against an unlit fire. And for a second nothing seems to have happened; and then you notice a tiny steak of flame creeping along the edged of the newspaper. It was like that now.
Trials make more room for consolation. There is nothing that makes a man have a big heart like a great trial. I always find that little, miserable people, whose hearts are about the size of a grain of mustard seed, never have had much to try them. I have found that those people who have no sympathy for their fellows β who never weep for the sorrows of others β very seldom have had any woes of their own. Great hearts can only be made by great troubles.
It seems wisest to assume the worst from the beginning...and let anything better come as a surprise.
Trust me," he said. "I know what I'm doing... or at least" -- he strolled confidently to the door -- "Felix does.
Sometimes people let the same problem make them miserable for years when they could just say, "So what." "My mother didn't love me." So what. "My husband won't ball me. So what. "I'm a success but I'm still alone." So what. I don't know how I made it through all the years before I learned how to do that trick. It took a long time for me to learn it, but once you do, you never forget.
Foul cankering rust the hidden treasure frets, but gold that's put to use more gold begets.
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