If I body-shame a woman, it is more a reflection of me being critical of my body, me not being able to keep up to certain standards I have, and so making sure that the women around me feel the same way.
I wasn't entitled to dream so big. The idea of me being a writer wasn't even possible in my mind. Even when I began to write and first published, I couldn't call myself a writer.
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What this quote means
This quote reflects the struggle of self-identity and the journey of achieving one's dreams despite initial doubts.
Rupi Kaur's quote speaks to the common experience of feeling unworthy of one's aspirations and the challenges in embracing an identity that seems beyond reach. It highlights the internal conflict many face when their ambitions seem disconnected from their self-perception, particularly in creative fields like writing. Kaur's words resonate with individuals who struggle to claim their achievements, reminding them that the journey of self-acceptance and recognizing one's own potential is central to personal growth.
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In a motivational speech about pursuing your passions, this quote underscores the importance of believing in your dreams.
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All quotes →There have been articles saying that all women need to read my book. I ask, why not all men? In fact, that would be even more valuable because we women want to sit down with men and tell them - this is how we feel, this is what we go through.
When I was little, my dad told me about Anandpur Sahib and the court of Guru Gobind Singh. That we came from a tradition of poets, warriors and artists who created when it was illegal to create... we're groomed to be reckless in the defense of what we feel is right.
The way a small child might dream of visiting Disneyland, I dreamed of writing books. Never did I think my poems would become that.
I was always writing for myself. I wrote what I needed to write and hear - that's what makes it powerful.
There was no market for poetry about trauma, abuse, loss, love, and healing through the lens of a Punjabi-Sikh immigrant woman.
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Before I was humiliated I was like a stone that lies in deep mud, and he who is mighty came and in his compassion raised me up and exalted me very high and placed me on the top of the wall.
Through you, we feel as giants, once again.
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