What is remembered is not a deed in stone but a metaphor. Meta = above. Pheren = to carry. That which is carried above the literalness of life. A way of thinking that avoids the problems of gravity. The word won't let me down. The single word that can release me from all that unuttered weight.
The body shuts down when it has too much to bear; goes its own way quietly inside, waiting for a better time, leaving you numb and half alive.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote highlights how overwhelming burdens can lead to emotional and physical numbness as a form of self-preservation.
Jeanette Winterson's quote reflects on the human condition and the impact of bearing too much weightβwhether it be emotional, psychological, or physical. When individuals face insurmountable challenges or pain, the body instinctively reacts by shutting down, retreating into a state of numbness as a way to cope. This shutdown is not just a defense mechanism but also a temporary withdrawal while waiting for a more favorable time to confront life's difficulties, underscoring the resilience of the human spirit even in the most trying times.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity, this quote can be used to illustrate how people often disconnect during tough times.
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I have a list of titles that I leave at the [library] desk, because they are bound to be written some day, and it's best to be ahead of the queue.
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In that house, you will find my heart. You must break in, Henri, and get it back for me.' Was she mad? We had been talking figuratively. Her heart was in her body like mine. I tried to explain this to her, but she took my hand and put it against her chest. Feel for yourself.
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